I call it the Wednesday-Enid Pairing. In every large group of people, you will have a pair of close friends, one of whom is like Wednesday Addams (coded autistic), the other who is like her friend Enid (coded ADHD) in the Netflix TV show.

If you're in a setting where there are disproportionately high numbers of neurodivergent folks, you will notice little Wednesday-Enid Pairings everywhere you look.

https://tenor.com/en-GB/view/enid-sinclair-enid-wednesday-wednesday-netflix-gif-27201702